Embrace Your Shadows and Your Light
with Playful Desires
Kink Workshops, Play Parties, Intimacy Coaching and Transformative Experiences
Explore the full spectrum of your Playful Desires
Enjoy yourself and each other
OK, enough waffle. What does Playful-Desires do?!
I facilitate incredible experiences and spaces so that you can live out your most playful-desires and meet other like minded people, as part of our community.
It is my mission to help people rediscover their beautiful, innocent self expression through play.
Each month I run a different workshop, often based on an aspect of BDSM & kink and in Bristol. I call these workshops 'Caring Kink'. I also run daytime-playtime parties a few times a year to bring the community together, which are erotic play classes in a safe, inclusive space.
My other passions are Authentic Relating, Mindful Dating and Addiction Recovery. I believe we an have all our crazy desires but still be wholesome, present and loving at the same time.


The work of Playful-Desires is about reconnecting us to our innocent and playful selves, but as adults. By creating safer spaces we facilitate individuals and groups to play together and embrace their shadows, their light and transmute all the stuckness into joyful creativity.
We cover a full spectrum of BDSM for beginners, power play, kink coaching and intimacy coaching.
If you'd like to be part of our community please come to an event, by yourself or bring someone along. Everyone is welcome and there is no substitute for real-life experience!
How May I Serve You?
I have three key offerings:
I'm proud of the spaces I create. I always try to curate experiences that I longed for when I was first exploring my erotic and playful desires. Now they are here, for you, to connect you to a set of sexy skills and an incredible community through intimacy & sexuality coaching for individuals and couples.
Personalised Support for Individuals & Couples. I help people to drop the performance anxieties and really come into atonement with their deepest longings and pleasure.
We don't have to wait for the night time to have fun and connect. We can do it all day long and enjoy this wonderful community. A caring community for erotic self-expression in Bristol.
Neil’s workshop created a uniquely relaxed space for me to feel safe in exploring new aspects of my sexuality. The combination of playfulness and taking it seriously as a practice where people have to be both vulnerable and brave was exactly what I needed as a beginner kinkster.
Ruth
★★★★★




